Going with the flow has more truth than many people realise.
However, in order to go with the flow, there needs to be the capacity to handle this. In other words, if there are old belief structures blocking your way forward which you have become aware of by simply being self-aware and objective with yourself, then you need to let go of those first before there is room for anything new.
Every tried filling a glass of water which is full, with more water? It is impossible right? It’s the same principle. It is also important to follow your intuition, as this will tell you / guide you to what is ego and what is higher self (your higher connection to all that is).